Recently someone said something to me that they thought of as an insult, but ironically I took it as one of the best compliments I have ever received. They said that I was a “moron” because I always see the silver lining in everything, and don’t realize how bad things really are sometimes. While I know they meant that to be a derogatory remark, I took it as a sign that I was fully trusting in the wisdom of my savior.
Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)
11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
The Lord’s message to me is clear. Trust in Him, He knows what He is doing.
Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV)
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.
It seems pretty clear to me. What I think should happen in this world is inconsequential. God knows what He is doing, and His plan is for my benefit. I don’t know why certain thing happen. I don’t know why it seems like some “good” people fail while some “bad” people succeed. Why do people who seem intent on making the a better place struggle while those who are living life as if nothing matters seem to have everything easy.
What we do know is that this life if fleeting, and on the other side of it is eternity. God has a plan for each of us and getting frustrated on the minutia of the daily life we are in does us no good.
The things that I worry about are simple and in this order. Is my walk right with God? Do my children love God in a real way? Am I providing for my family, to the best of my ability, both financially and emotionally? Everything else is just noise. Something to be ignored because it isn’t what is important.
If my walk is right with God then I know that I am listening to His voice. The one that is still and quiet and only audible when I spend time with him.
If my children love God, then I know they are set up for true success in this life.
If I am providing for my family, it is easier for my children to see how God provides for them as I am to be their example of their heavenly father here on earth.
So, while others may think that I only see the good in the world, that isn’t true. I see the bad, the frustrating and the evil; I just choose to not focus on it, but rather to focus on:
Philippians 4:8 (NIV)
8 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.
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